Having trained many people and many different types of people (elite athletes, mothers, working professionals, students) over the past 4.5 years, I have come to realise that the people who get the most out of their personal training sessions share certain qualities. Some of the tips I am about to share with you can be taught where others cannot. May this article inspire you to get the most out of your training so that you can be the Super You!
1. They have desire. Some people would easily call this motivation, however, I see motivation as taking action that will bring a person closer to what they desire. We all desire certain things in life whether that be to own an expensive leather handbag, a nice family car, the latest activewear, however, people who are motivated towards owning that handbag, driving that car and wearing the most in vogue activewear are going to take steps towards making the above reality. This might mean eating less take out so that more money can be set aside to go towards the leather handbag; it might mean researching different types of family cars and dealerships to find out which car best suits the family’s needs; it might mean reading reviews on the latest and greatest activewear to find out which tights would best fit your body shape. Desire cannot be taught. Desire cannot be instilled. Desire is intrinsic and unique to each person. Without desire, there is no action and therefore, no results. The people who have the greatest amount of success with their personal trainers are the people who have desire. The desire to have lost that last 5kg yesterday. The desire to lose flab from their arms, stomach, hips and thighs. The desire to feel confident in the clothes they wear. The desire to feel as though they are being admired for their ‘hot bod’ as they walk into the gym. Without desire, no personal trainer can help you.
2. They are honest. People who get the most out of their training sessions are honest with themselves about the effort they put into their training. They will tell their trainer if a weight is too light or if they could have done another 5 reps because these people want results (they have desire-remember?) If you half arse your training, you get half arse results which should not come as a surprise to anybody. It is this honesty and transparency that leads to greater results and reaching goals much sooner than those who are content with walking away from training feeling as though they have hardly broken a sweat. Now, it is important to bear in mind that people train for different reasons and that not everybody wants or needs to train to the point that they are left standing in a puddle of sweat post workout, however, if one of your goals is to lose weight, decrease body fat and put on muscle (most laypeople would refer to this as ‘toning’ or ‘sculpting’), then you should expect to sweat and even experience DOMS (Delayoed Onset Muscle Soreness) after seeing your PT!
3. They count their reps. This is a big one! When clients count their reps, it tells me quite a few things:
The client is prepared to do the hard yards and is committed to the process. Clients who do not count their reps tend to have the expectation that their trainer can and will reach their health and fitness goals for them and that if they do not reach their health and fitness goals, then the blame is passed onto someone or something else. This is a result of the client not taking responsibility for their current situation whether that be physically, mentally, emotionally or otherwise. Take responsibility, take ownership, take control and count your reps.
Clients who count reps tend to be focused, present and engaged with their surroundings and what is unfolding in the training sessions we do. There are few things more frustrating when a client’s face is blank the entire hour-long session, wait, no, it is much worse when a client cannot peel their eyes off their phone! Of course we all have our days of distractions and ‘busyness’, however, the more engaged a person is with that they are doing, the more they will take away from what we do. Focus and presence also results in improved technique and execution of exercises which will see improvements occur more frequently in those who leave their distractions and phones in their bag!
From experience, the people who count their reps are also more respectful than those who do not. Why is this? As a PT, of course we are expected to count repetitions, that is part of what we do but what is more important is for us to ensure that our clients’ technique is correct and that the appropriate muscles are being engaged. Being female, it might be easier for me to count reps, analyse technique, correct technique and set up equipment for the following exercises than my male counterparts 😛 however, it does become challenging to keep track of four things at one time! Give us a break! Clients who count reps give their trainers more time to ensure their technique is on track which is important because incorrect technique can lead to injury and setbacks.
4. They are questions. This point is a good one and goes hand-in-hand with the previous point. When I get asked questions while training someone, it lets me know that the person cares and is interested in their training. We, as personal trainers want to do more than just tell you what to do and flog you until you cannot move; we really want to educate you so that you walk away from training feeling as though you learned a thing or two. This validates what we do! You should want to know more about your training, the approach to training and why that approach has been taken e.g. mostly weight training vs HIIT vs swimming. There is more than one way to skin a cat and understanding the approach that your PT recommends and takes can make training more enjoyable. Most of my clients will perform the same (or very similar) routine in the gym for up to 6 weeks before making changes. If I do not explain the reasoning behind this approach to my clients, most of them would leave me because they would not understand how this approach links to the trajectory of their goals. For clients, this can lead to feeling as though you are going no where and you are wasting your precious time. If you do not understand something that your trainer does whether that be the type of training they run you through, an exercise or stretches that they have recommended, it is imperative that you ask. Often there is a very good reason behind it.
5. They are punctual and self-starters. The best people to train are the people who turn up 10-15 minutes early so that they can get changed into their activewear; fill their water bottle; reply to any unanswered messages on their phone; and get started with their warm-up all by themselves and without being asked. I believe that it is a personal trainer’s responsibility to teach their clients how to warm-up correctly, however, the more a person can take this upon themselves to do prior to the sessions starting, the better. This leaves more time to get through the hard yards and getting through what has been planned for that session. If a person turns up 5 minutes late and then spends 10-15 minutes warming up and the last 10-15 minutes of their session cooling down, then effectively there is as little as 25 minutes left of an hour-long session. Let me just say that much more can be achieved in 40-50 minutes of work and having a person warm themselves up forms a big part of this.
6. They practise what we teach! These people will go home and will look at YouTube videos we on how to execute the perfect deadlift or lat pull down technique; they will spend an extra 15 minutes on their yoga mat at home stretching after their workout and rolling around on a tennis ball to get those knots out; they soak in an Epsom salt bath and take the supplements we recommend to help them recover from training. These people take notes (seriously, they carry notebooks around) and apply what we know will yield the best results. They understand the importance of being educated on their training, their recovery and nourishing the body and they work hard at all three. As trainers, we can only do so much with immobile bodies that are overfed, undernourished and bulging with stress. We can run you through exercises and mobility drills, but the people who do their homework are ahead of the rest.
Bonus Tip!
7. They trust their trainer. You must ask your trainer questions, however, the people who get the most out of their trainer develop a great relationship with them and trust their expertise. The more you trust your trainer, the more willing you will be to take on board their recommendations and the more likely you will be to see the results you have been working so hard towards achieving. Ask important questions but if you are questioning everything, it could be a sign that the trainer you are with is not the one for you; trust is not your forte and/or you have a lot to learn about health and fitness. It can be very challenging to build a rapport and train people who question everything. It is important for trainers to answer any questions and address any concerns their clients have, however, without trust, a strong relationship (of any kind) cannot be built and therefore the training cannot be personal-we are called personal trainers for a reason!!!
If you are ready to get more out of your workouts and get real results b someone who has been there and done that, book your free trial with yours truly at UFIT One-North, Singapore by completing the online form and remember to request Laura as your trainer: http://www.ufit.com.sg/book-free-trial/
Your Supergirl 🙂
Laura xx